select * from AR_USER_RELATION_NEW WHERE USER_ID = '76209982806298624'


select * from AR_USER u where u.USER_NAME='LA68770271'


select u.ID, u.USER_NAME,u.REAL_NAME from AR_USER u where u.ID = '135210116545908736'
union all
(select n.user_id,u.USER_NAME,u.REAL_NAME
 from AR_USER_RELATION_NEW n left join  AR_USER u on n.USER_ID=u.ID 
where 
(select PARENT_UIDS from AR_USER_RELATION_NEW WHERE USER_ID = '135210116545908736' )  like  concat('%' , n.USER_ID , '%') 
order by n.TOP_DEEP desc)